WILL YOUR SON IN LAW BE HELPFUL TO YOU?
Now-a-days a new trend has begun in matchmaking of horoscopes, people try to fix the marriage with the native who will not only be helpful to her husband but also to parents of the husband. We are seeing in increase of divorces also as the modarn day astrology is progressing. Either there is some defect in modern matchmaking or the astrologers are not fully competent or God has thrown all the sinners in this century to reap the fruits of their sins of past life so nothing is able to hold a family stable for long in many cases.
Still, matchmaking is a must in most of hindu homes and now it has become a trend in all religions because of the increasing divorce ratios in all religions. No one asks whether a son in law will be helpful to his wife`s family in the same way as she is expected to be. And this is a topic which usually no one wants to pursue because of male dominated society in which we live. The relations of husband with the parents of the girl and viceversa are becoming and important factor in divorce. Husbands usually are illreceptive towards their inlaws and viceversa. Parda or ghoonghat has become obsolete and wish of elders has become an object of mockery in many homes. This degradation of family values is outcome of westernisation and modernisation of our Indian culture and society and people are paying the price in courtrooms. Various brainless tv shows are major reason for it. Television and cellphones have corrupted social values beyond imagination.
Guruji shree KSK has written about it in his fourth reader, but he took the charts of the parents of the girl and with respect to it he has given the rule. Now a days no one carries so many charts with them and so I thought that there should be some logic which can be developed further by fellow astrologers to arrive at a common decision about the topic in question from the chart of the girl itself.
The seventh house is of the spouse, the 9th of the father of the native in question and 4th of the mother. Ninth house is also about luck and 5th house being 9th to 9th is another important house. It is after all luck, fate, destiny which makes a person suffer or enjoy what ever he or she is going through and will go through. Luck is the final verdict of God. It cannot be changed. A good aspect or conjuction or rashi navansha positions must indicate the interpersonal relations of the subject with his inlaws. We will see four charts and discuss about their husbands and relation of husband with their parents, father primarily as he is the head of the home still.
The fifth house is 9th house of ninth and seventh house is 11th house of ninth. So these houses along with other will have their say in our discussion. In my experience I have found this dictum correct to the last word that “before time and more than destined no one gets nothing”.
Life in villages is so peaceful and calm that one will be surprised to see. Our values and culture is still alive there and this is a main reason for long life and happiness of the family members, though slowly the cyanide of modernisation is reaching there also. we can see that breakups in marriage are rampant in metros than in villages. Life is meant to be peaceful, soothing, calm and helping not fighting, quarraling, dominating over each other. Someone will have to let go the ego so that both can remain happy and peaceful. The women folk has not suddenly become a working class but she has been working even before independence, what has changed now is the viewpoint of the women and so we are witnessing the results daily in newspapers. That time women maintained their dignity and dignity of the both families. Men were also different and obeyed elders generally. Everything has changed now.
The other factor is the dasha period which changes a human according to its significations, so while for a particular time there are cordial relations between the inlaws and son in law it becomes negative later and there are reverse cases also, the main reason is the dasha which follows upon the native.
Below are four charts of females with different place of birth and time and two of them are real sisters with different natured husbands.
So with my small knowledge, I think we must look at connection of 5th, 7th sublords with 9th cusp sublord. We must also look at the strength of 5th and 9th house. See the irony here that 5th house is called laxmi sthaan, house of luck of father and fourth house is called sukh sthaan. 4th is of mother and 5th is of luck of the father of a native. 4th house is 12th to 5th house which means that God himself wanted all fathers to be devoid of luck because of mother of the native. Which also means that when our parents grow old they need sukh and luck both to remain happy and this is a duty of every child male or female to provide it without any questions no matter what ever there horoscopes say.
1) The husband of the first chart is away and is on enemic mode for the family of the girl since begining. The 7th and 9th csl is saturn in sub of mercury. Mercury is in 12th house which is 8th to 5th house. At the time of marriage the couple was running mahadasha of saturn. It clearly shows bad relations. It is also fourth house from 9th thus negating 5th house or good relations.
In the second chart the 5th cuspal sublord is saturn in sub of ketu in ourth house. The 9th cuspal sublord is Jupiter in sub of saturn in 3rd house which is 11th to 5th . The native is a dedicated son in law and obeys them like a pet. Saturn is also the cuspal sublord of third house.
1) In the third chart the 5th cuspal sublord is mercury in sub of saturn in first house which is 5th house to 9th. The native has a very friendly husband towards her parents since marriage. The 9th csl is saturn in star and sub of jupiter in 9th bhava thus becoming strong significator for 9th house. The husband is presently going through mahadasha of saturn and has very good relations with inlaws since beginning of the marriage.
1) The 5th cuspal sublord is saturn in sub of saturn in 5th house. The girl has a very obedient husband towards her parents. The husband of the native is presently going through mahadasha of jupiter which is in first bhava , the 5th house to 9th house. The 9th csl is venus in sub of saturn. The second csl is sun in sub of rahu in 10th bhava which is second to 9th . These are friendly bhavas and so the relations are also very good.
Thus we see that role of 5th house is more important than 7th house when it comes to interpersonal relations of the son in law with the father of the girl. Readers can experiment on more charts and I am sure they will find 2,5,9,11 house significations from the 9th house in action when the relations are good and 6,,8,12 from 9th or 9th to 9th house when the relations are sour or bad.
Aries 2014 Horoscope
Aries 2014 Horoscope (Vedic horoscope/ Ascendant sign based)
There are 3 constellations in Aries which are Ashwini, Bharini, Krittika ruled by Ketu, Venus, Sun. Aries is ruled by Mars which is soldier in planetary cabinet. Aries born are courageous, Aggressive, have marks of their face and hands and are always ready to mingle into a fight. They take great pleasure in having union with opposite sex and invite trouble themselves. They also earn a huge amount of money by their own efforts and guts which comes to them after hard labour.
Family life in the year is going to be tough. You will not be able to give time to your family members and there will be problems all around. You will be moving away from home many times and that will be a reason for discord in the family. In the month of march there will be unwanted troubles in home front and you will be losing focus from other things. You will get more self centered from march onwards and you will see major changes from June. There will be gains to your father and other elders in the family after June.
Health will be another front, which will disappoint you in the beginning of the year. Chances of getting caught in fever, viral disease are very high. Also there will be too much acidity in your belly till July and problem of acute pains will also emerge. So it will be wise to be cautious and do not involve much into junky foods and eat normal home meal. This year mostly health is going to be giving you many problems. March April is the time when you should be most preventive in your habits.
Venus takes around 22-24 days to cross a sign when in direct motion. Venus governs love romance and all such joyful things. Sun is the lord of affairs and venus if the lord of spouse for you. There are not good things happening in the love front and expenses will be created by it with no fruitful results. For married people, Rahu and Saturn in 7th house will be destroying what so ever peace is there till june but from june things will get better for you.
Aries people have to work harder than others to achieve their goals and they are born hardworkers. This year you will have to prove this dictum, otherwise efforts are bound to go in vain. Natives in the field of media, Communications, Law, Religion etc will be shining bright. For others it is a tough call. After june you will perform much better and there will be a distinct difference in your performance.
Finances are going to be normal. It will be wiser to not put money in speculation etc otherwise, losses are indicated. Purchase of a new home is also there for those with good balances. July onwards there are good chances of your doing so. The tendency of being spendthrift is always there with you this year so control it for better future.
Education is going to be very good this year. Students of Law, Commerce, Engineering, Research, Chemical sciences will have good time this year. The pursuit of higher education will also be fulfilled and you can go abroad for higher studies. Competitions in the month of June July will be very favorable for you.
On 16th December around 2 am sun will move to Sagittarius, a sign ruled by Jupiter and is its mooltrikona sign. It is a fiery, dual, odd, and masculine sign. Sagittarius deals with religious scriptures, religious places, weapons, thighs, fat, swelling, cancer, tumors, diseases of legs and waist, aurvedic medicines and syrups, long travels, fame, foreign travels, voyage, public relations etc to name a few attributes.
It is a more prominent and stronger sign than Pisces due to its fiery nature. Jupiter rules both the signs but Pisces is not so prominent as Sagittarius. Sun will be passing through the constellations of ketu, venus and sun in this transit which will be upto 14th January 2014 and sun will become uttarayan that day. If someone observes, it is very interesting phenomenon, those having their windows in the east and can see the sunrise every day, they will mark the difference in the rotation of the sun in its uttarayan and dakshinayan motion.
The general effects of this transit on all natives will be :
1) ARIES: It will initially give you health problems, medication will be required and increased expenses. If unmarried then there will be problems with your fiancée. You will be in a confused state of mind about what steps to take for betterment but later it will improve. Work front will get better and then there will travels. You will sail smooth in the New Year.
2) TAURUS: You will be having problems throughout in personal and work life. Health will be not so good and you will be having troublesome things happening around you. You may undertake some repair work for your home and vehicles. There will decrease in popularity and you will try to avoid crowds.
3) GEMINI: Indecisiveness is what you will go through this month. Education of children, your personal life, and health of children will be the source of anguish. You will be gaining money also in this time and there are chances of guests coming to your home for short stay. work front will be getting better as the time goes by. In love affairs, there will be disputes on petty things.
4) CANCER: Food habits need caution, there will be gain of money, and many things you wanted will be fulfilled. Luck will be favorable largely. Spouse will be helpful and personal life will be good.
5) LEO: You will get favors from government; will be doing advisory role for many. You will perform religious deeds and travel. You will clear the competitive exams if any and will perform well in your job, business. There are chances of your communication devices getting dysfunctional. Health will be good in general.
6) VIRGO: Be careful with your health and ready for obstacles initially. There could be defamation also. Do not commit what you cannot do. You talk a lot and do less. There will be happiness in all fronts in the later part of the transit.
7) LIBRA: Control your expenses and desires. Personal life is not going good. You are seeing many vicissitudes for long now. Work front will be good but you will not be able to use it to your benefit. It will be good to focus more on matters related to money than other things. Don’t lose your temper and be agreeing with your spouse.
8) SCORPIO: There are good times for you after sun crosses ketu`s constellation. You may have a small accident, pain in joints and viral. You will be doing well in work sphere. There will be trips to nearby places. You may buy new gadget this month. There will be wastages on petty things.
9) SAGGITARIUS: You will have good time in work field. Purchase of gold is also indicated. You will gain money and friends. Some goals will be achieved this month, which were delayed for long. You will be having an inner conflict between the right and wrongs of life and ultimately you will go with the wrong to get your things done.
10) CAPRICORN: You may repay some of your debts in January 2014. It is going to be good period for you over all and you will be happy. There is not much to worry about and you can continue with your plans.
11) AQUARIUS: There will be initial setbacks and bad luck. You will be dejected. Later things will get better and you will be happy. There will be monetary gains and favors from superiors in the later part of the month. Business class will have good time in the mid and end of this transit. If you are into any of the occult practices then this whole month will be good.
12) PISCES: You may face betrayal so take the necessary steps. Work front will be good in general but loss of money is there. Siblings can be a source of unwanted trouble. You will recover from illness. Love affair is also happening for you. There could be injury on your face.
Jupiter has gone retrograde on 8th November and will remain like that till 7th march 2014.On 7th march it will turn direct. In this reverse sojourn, Jupiter will remain in Gemini but will travel back till 16 degrees in star of rahu. This phenomenon will be interesting to watch as retrograde planets offer very interesting results sometimes. People who have been waiting to get their things done will find it very easy to get it and contrarily some will be having stuck ups until Jupiter becomes direct. We are going to have polls of assembly elections in this time and preparation will be on full swing for the loksabha elections when it turns direct. This is certainly going to affect the voter and results as Jupiter rules over 8th and 11th house of the chart of Independent India. 8th house is the prime house for obstacles, death, obstruction etc and also hidden gains, Jupiter is posited in 6th house in the natal chart of India creating a vipreet rajyoga for the nation.
India is going through mahadasha of sun till 10-9-2015 and the antara of mercury will be operating till 5-5-2014. By this time, Loksabha elections could be over according to some sources. However, Jupiter will be getting direct in March itself. The opinion polls for assembly elections are showing new results as each day is passing by, every channel is coming up with its own analysis without disclosing the benchmarks on which its results are based. Therefore, there is no point in trusting them or watching them. We have seen them to be correct and wrong equally and they are just a waste of time. We will never know, what goes behind the curtains until we have the actual results in month of December 2013.What I feel is that results are going to abide by the results of some of the opinion polls as they have shown everything to happen so there is nothing left which cannot happen and after the results those with near correct figures will waste another 2-3 days in showing that they were correct. Rest will show other news as usual.
Jupiter is not coming in the mahadasha and antara at the time of elections so its effect is not going to be much, but on the whole, it is a planet with more importance than mercury in mundane astrology. Its aspects itself are worthy of making the changes, it is assumed that retrograde planets aspect not only from the house they are posited but from the house before the actual house also thus giving it 6 aspects instead of regular 3 which are 5,7,9.
The results of elections will be surprising indeed because of the media coverage, social media, and overall awareness of the voter at large. BJP is going to be ahead in MP, chhatisgarh, Rajasthan could be hung, and Delhi will see AAP as the kingmaker or new head of the state.
The effect of various nativities will also be there but only to those who are passing through the mahadasha, antara or pratyantara of Jupiter of if their dasha lords are somehow connected with Jupiter by way of star or sub. The timing of good or bad events will differ from person to person. People will see that suddenly their blocked works have started to progress and yielding results. Some people will find that the monies due to them are stuck due to absence of related personnel and will be gained only after Jupiter turns direct. People having long disease will suffer further and medication will prove to be less effective to them. Religious gurus and educational institutes will also suffer and so will court cases. Legal matters will be delayed and signed contracts will not be able to fructify in stipulated time limit. Business activities will also see a general setback including share market and speculative activities. People will lose money in speculation. Plans of new purchases will be delayed or obstructed because of lack of funds.
1) ARIES: There will be financial gains, stability in personal life, health will improve. You may gain weight also due to heavy foods. There will be increase in expenditure due to purchase of new things. Long travels are indicated and your parents may go on a pilgrimage.
2) TAURUS: Overall good period, there will be not much to worry about. But health should be kept under check as there could be some serious disease. Relations with people will improve and new understanding will be there for you.
3) GEMINI: There will be good progress in professional and personal front. There may be renovation in your home. You may change your job. Spouse may leave for some time.
4) CANCER: Gains from legal matters will be delayed; luck may become unfavorable for some time, but will improve later. You can commit mistakes in decisions related to finance. Servants may give trouble to you and health will become an issue to be considered.
5) LEO: There could be miscarriage in coming months; speculation will not be much useful and fruitful. There will be unexpected gains other than from speculation. This will not be much troublesome to you.
6) VIRGO: This will be good for you overall; there will be prosperity and progress professionally after 1-2 months. There could be sad news in the family. Your temperament will be good and positive.
7) LIBRA: You will be most affected from this, as this will delay your plans of all kind. There will be lesser satisfaction from work also. You will lose in legal matters so better delay them. You will be making silly mistakes in day to day communications with friends and family. Your relations with maternal relatives may suffer.
8) SCORPIO: Finance will improve and expenses will increase. Offspring’s will not perform good in studies, there will peace in personal life. There could be conflicts with people of authority but the magnitude will not be much.
9) SAGGITARIUS: Your will power will get lesser, you will want to delay things and become a lazy, you will have stressed relations with other persons that will improve after sometime. Overall, this will not be a satisfactory period for you.
10) CAPRICORN: You will have good time as there will be gains, win over foes and other good things. You may take several short journeys also but you will not be able to check expenses and professional front will also be a bit unsatisfactory. Still you will have good time till Jupiter is retrograde.
11) AQUARIUS: There will be sudden gains, you may get you due monies earlier than expected. But the gains will not be up to what you had expected. You will see that things are getting delayed and are making you frustrated. It will get better after some time when Jupiter will go back in rahu`s constellation.
12) PISCES: You are prone to sickness, your professional work not be rewarding for the time being, there will be extra pressure and you will not like it. Personal life will become better for some time. This will not be a bad time overall so there is not much to think about.
PLANET SATURN IN JUPITER`S CONSTELLATION – EFFECTS ON YOU
Cricket's most prolific run-scorer Sachin Tendulkar will play his 200th and final Test match at his home ground in Mumbai against West Indies before bringing the curtain down on a fabulous 24-year international career. The 40-year-old genuis wished to end his career in front of his home crowd and his mother at wankhede stadium. As obvious no one could say no to him and so we will witness end of an era of cricket itself.
Tendulkar, made his international debut against Pakistan in 1989 as a 16-year-old, will play his 199th test in the series opener at Kolkata's Eden Gardens from Nov 6-10, according to a tour itinerary released on Tuesday. He will then bring up No 200 at the Wankhede Stadium. Tendulkar has accumulated 15,837 runs in 198 tests and 18,426 runs in 463 one-day internationals.
I just got curious to know about how will sachin fare in his last match so I casted a horary chart and with the help of astro-numerology I am trying to find the run band in which sachin`s last blasts will end. The chart is casted on 31-10-2013 at 9:17:05 77E24, 23N16 coordinates.
Now let us divide the runs in groups or bands..
It is highly unlikely that he will be scoring more than 400 runs in all. Let us see what result are told by divine help
Ascendant Lord: Venus :9
Moon star lord: sun :5
Moon sign lord: Venus:9
Day lord: Jupiter:21
The result is 44 and using the system the answer comes 2. So our answer is option 2 which is 150-200 runs. Let us wait and watch for the result of his score. This is for academic purposes only and should not be taken as basis of any kind of action.
यह संकलित है ..मेरा अनुभूत नहीं है ....आप स्वतंत्र हैं यदि करना चाहते हैं तो ....
१) धन हानि से बचाव : (अ )पीले कनेर के फूल ,पीले कपडे तथा पीला भोजन सात्विक वृद्ध ब्राह्मण को गुरूवार को देने से अकस्मात धन हानि से रक्षा होती रहती है .
(बी ) प्रत्येक रविवार की रात को सोते समय अपने सिरहाने लोटे या जग में पानी भर के रख लें और उसमें थोडा सा दूध दाल लें .किसी को टोकना नहीं चहिये और ये फैलना भी नहीं चहिये .
सोमवार को नित्य कर्मों से फारिग होकर इस पानी को बबूल के वृक्ष में चढा दिया करें और इसकी चर्चा कहीं नहीं करें .
२) अनिष्ट से बचने के लिए : साबुत मूंग एक मुट्ठी अपने ऊपर से उतारा करके चिड़ियों को खिला दिया करें .
सोमवार के दिन दर्पण में बार बार अपना मुह देखने से कफ पित्त का प्रकोप कम होता है और खांसी में भी लाभ होता है .
पुरानी खांसी के लिए देवास में स्थित तुलजा भवानी माता के समीप ही खो खो माता हैं जिनके ताबीज को पहन कर देखें और प्रभाव सभी के साथ साझा करें .
हनुमान चालीसा का नित्य पाठ दोनों समय अति लाभकारी है .अवश्य करें .
३ ) कन्या के सुखी विवाहिक जीवन के लिए : एक लोटे में गंगाजल भर के उसमें पीसी हुई हल्दी और ताम्बे का पीला सिक्का कन्या के ऊपर से उतार के उसके आगे गिरा दें और इसका उद्देश्य किसी से न कहें .
४)नवनिर्मित मकान से आनंद प्राप्ति हेतु : चांदी के नाग नागिन चांदी के एक पत्रे पर रखें ,पांच पूजा की सुपारी और सात अखंडित हल्दी की साफ़ गान्ठे ,ताम्बे की लुटिया में थोडा सा गंगाजल भरकर सभी वस्तुएँ उसमें दाल दें .इस पर चांदी का पत्रा ढँक कर मुख्या द्वार की पश्चिम दिशा में गहरा गड्ढा खुदवा कर दबा दें और भूल जाएँ .
५) शराबी का शराब पीना बंद करवाना : यदि व्यक्ति स्वयं पीने से दुखी हो चूका हो तो उसके मनोबल की वृद्धि के लिए शुक्ल पक्ष के शनिवार को ११ साबुत हल्दी की गांठे ले और उन पर कलावा लपेट दें .इसको व्यक्ति के ऊपर से ११ बार उतार कर किसी पोखर ,बावडी या तालाब में डाल दें .ऐसा लगातार ७ दिन तक करें .फायदा हो सकता है ....
सदा उर्जावान सदा क्रोधी परस्त्री रत समस्त भोगों को भोगने वाला गृह है मंगल .ग्रहों की संसदं में इसको सेनापति का दर्जा प्राप्त है और सभी शौर्य और वीरता से सम्बंधित गतिविधियों में मंगल ही कहीं न कहीं से काम करता है .
मंगल का जन्म उज्जैयिनी में माना गया है तथा मंगल का मंत्र है “ॐ अम अंगारकाय नमः” और इसको प्रतिदिन यदि संभव हो तो १००८ बार जपना चहिये अन्यथा १०८ बार तो अवश्य ही .
मंगल को २ राशियों का अधिपत्य प्राप्त है –मेष और वृश्चिक .इसका रत्न मूंगा है और इसका रंग लाल है .वैधव्य का हेतु भी मंगल ही है अगर ये जन्म कुंडली में १२,१,४,७,८ भावों में हो और कहीं से इसका परिहार न हो रहा हो तो ये सबसे अमंगल गृह है . मंगल प्रबल मारक होता है .शस्त्र से मृत्यु देने में मंगल अग्रणी है .मगल शौर्य भी है .बेधड़क शत्रु के खेमे में जाकर सबको मटियामेट कर देने का साहस देने वाला गृह मंगल ही है .सर पर चोट देने में भी मंगल को महारत हासिल है .
सड़क छाप गुंडे मवाली भी मंगल का ही रूप होते हैं और सड़क से सदन तक जाने वाले कई लोग मंगल प्रधान होते हैं .मंगल से वाणी भी ख़राब होती है .जिन स्त्रियों का मंगल द्वितीय भाव में हो और स्वराशी तथा शुभ द्रष्ट न हो उनको बहुत दिक्कत होती है .अगर मंगल कुंडली में अच्छा नहीं है तो आम तौर पे दिक्कत ही देता है .और अगर अच्छा है तो व्यक्ति हर परिस्थिति से लड़कर आगे निकल जाता है .
मंगल अहंकार कूट कूट के भर देता है .गीता में श्री कृष्ण ने स्पष्ट कहा है की अहंकार प्रभु प्राप्ति के मार्ग का सबसे बड़ा अवरोध है .मंगल प्रधान लोग बहुत भौतिकतावादी होते हैं .मैंने कर रहा हूँ ,मैंने करा ,मैं ऐसा ,मैं वैसा …आत्मा प्रशंसा सुन ने के भी ये लोग बहुत लालायित रहते हैं ..
ख़राब मंगल को साधने के लिए हनुमानजी से अच्छा कोई नहीं है .जिनका भी मंगल खराब हो मंगलवार को या जिस दिन चन्द्रमा मृगशिरा ,चित्रा ,धनिष्ठा में हो तो १०८ या ५१ बार हनुमान चालीसा का पाठ करें और २७ बार उसी दिन या नक्षत्र में पुनरावृत्ति करें .
वाहन से दुर्घटना ,ओपरेशन ,हाथ पैर टूटना ,अंग भंग होना सब मंगल की देन है अधिकतर .सर पर चोट ,टाँके लगना भी मंगल का ही काम है . मंगल चिकित्सक भी बनाता है ,सेना में भी भेजता है ,पोलिस में भी ,भूमि पुत्र है अतः भूमि से भी जुड़े हुई कामों में लगाता है जैसे बिल्डर ,भूमि के दलाल ,मंगल उद्योगपति भी बनाता है ….बड़ी बड़ी मशीनों का जहाँ पर काम होता है …वाहन के काम में भी लगा देता है .
२७-१०-१९६८ //८:०० //७७ पू ४३ -२२ उ ४५ —–यहाँ देखिये शुक्र मंगल और सप्तम भाव .ये जातक पुलिस में है .बहुत बड़े पद पर नहीं है पर अपनी वीरता के कारन बड़े अधिकारी इसको हमेशा साथ में रखा करते थे .जिस जगह जाने से सभी पुलिस वाले डरते है ये वहाँ भी गया और जिंदा वापस भी आ गया ….नक्सल इलाके में ….इसके जीवन में इसने इतनी स्त्रियों का भोग करा की अब गिनती भी नहीं करता .लेकिन पराक्रम में कहीं से पीछे नहीं है .मदिरा सेवन में भी अव्वल रहा .
१२-७-१९४२ //१२:५० //७५ पू ४९ —२६ उ ५५ –ये जातक सेना में ब्रिगेदिएर बना .
२९ -८-१९७४ //१४:५०//८३ पू २४ –२१ उ ५४ –ये सज्जन एक राष्ट्रीय समाचार चैनल पर रोज़ आते हैं.इनका मगल आत्मकारक है .सूर्य के साथ है ,सूर्य की राशि में है .शनि से भी द्रष्ट है गुरु से भी .इनका जीवन भी वोही है ….शाम होते ही मदिरा ….और स्त्रियों की गिनती भी नहीं पता .विवाह भी प्रेम वाला ही करा .अत्यंत महत्वकाशी और मतलबी व्यक्तित्व के धनी हैं .
२-५-१९५२ //पुत्तूर //६:०० –ये एक नामी बदमाश है छोटा राजन की हैसियत की.मेष लग्न ..मंगल लग्न को देखता है .लग्न में सूर्य उच्च का बैठा हुआ है .मंगल दशम भाव को भी देखता है और द्वितीय को भी .
२४-८-१९५७ //१७:००//७६ पू ०८ –२८ उ ४७ ==मंगल दशा प्रारम्भ होते ही ये जमीन की दलाली करने लग गए और सफल भी हो गए .
१३ -१०-१९८१ //१०:०५//७३ पू ४१ –२४ उ ३५ —-मंगल दशम में है .फिर से मंगल शुक्र सप्तम भाव ….मंगल पापकर्तरी में भे है .ये फिल्म क्षेत्र से जुडी हुई महिला हैं इनके जीवन में इतने अधिक प्रसंग रहे हैं की जिसका वर्णन नहीं करा जा सकता .दो विवाह कर चुकी हैं ,तीसरे की तैय्यारी चल रही है .परदे पर आने के लिए हर कीमत चुकाने में हमेशा आगे रहीं .
Hindu society since long -long ago has been using match making process of Hindu astrology, which is primarily based on constellation of moon at the time of birth. Match making is a methodology by which we choose the right girl for the boy and vice versa, who will not only will bring luck in family but overall prosperity and will serve the family like own one. Our traditional values were very high and norms were very strict, even 30-40 years ago. Females used to do parda in front of elders of family and in front of other males and used to eat lastly, when all the members including children have finished their food. In south India, the cultural bond is still very strong than in northern part. Because of a very strong and strict value system, there were fewer divorces, extramarital affairs, clashes in husband-wife etc. Now days the scenario is completely different and we all know where it is heading. We can blame it on tv serials and on the run after western culture etc but the fact is that there is a very high ratio of divorces these days in all religions, unhappy married life is the story of most of the couples, not only in metros but in remote towns also. Extramarital affairs of both are on high rise and all the things which are undesirable are happening openly in the name of job, work, business etc. The funny part is that most of these marriages are based on Match Making system which was created to ensure that such things will not happen. So what went wrong? Is the system still relevant or are we needing something more now?
The traditional system, which is ashtkoot, is based on the birth constellation, rashi and rashi lord of moon and characteristics of each constelltion and its positional aspect with respect to other. In south dashkoot methodology is used which is a further extension of the same.
The points which are taken into consideration, in ashtkoot method, are :
1) Varna: It is the classification of community of rashis, just like we have Brahmin, kshatriya, vaishya and shoodra same goes with rashis. The best combination is when both are of same varna.
2) Vashya: It is the division of rashi`s on the basis of their nature i.e. two legged, four legged, and jala(watery). Here also it is best to have both with same vashya.
3) Tara: It is based on constellation and specific position of birth stars of both are considered to match each other. They are total 9 in number .
4) Yoni: This is seen for sexual compatibility between the boy and girl. All constellations are assigned certain animals for male and female constellations and the match is based on it. Marriage between nakshatras of same class of yoni and between male and female constellation of that yoni is considered best.
5) Grahmaitri: The sign lord of moon at birth is seen, moon is the karak for mind and its lord is takes for reference to gauge the mental compatability between the two. If the lords are good friends then full points are allotted.
6) Gan: All the 27 constellations are divided into 3 types of intrinsic characteristics called as DEV, MANUSHYA AND RAKSHASA. Rakshasa can only marry a rakshasa and rest of the two can marry each other but the best combination is when both are same.
7) Bhakoot: It is the distance between the janma rashi of the boy and girl and the result is derived after considering it.
8) Nadi: This aspect signifies the pulse or the nervous energy indicating the physiological and some hereditary factors. The boy and girl should not have same nadi.
Apart from this there is Mangal Dosha to be considered very seriously for a prosperous marriage. This one factor can eliminate all the good factors present in a match result.
There are free and paid softwares available in the market which can calculate all this in a fraction and tell the result. But the result is not satisfactory…all the 8 points I mentioned above are based on moon and its constellation at time of birth.
In this method, the most important are yoni, grahmaitri, gan match. These three should be having full marks or atleast next to full marks otherwise one should not go ahead.
But a person always grows up and dies one day, he or she does not remain in that constellation for the all their lives and this is the biggest drawback of this matchmaking. In my opinion, the prevailing dasha of both, the position of ascendants, the position of sun, Jupiter, Saturn, venus is of more importance than this ashtkoot or dashkoot method which is based upon something that happened years ago in the life of a native.
The position of these planets should not be 6-8 or 2-12 to each other, the ascendant and 7th house should have least or none malefic aspect and 2nd house should be well enough. These houses should not be in paapkartari and the prevailing and the next dasha lords should be friends or atleast neutral to each other and in good position in chart with respect to each other.
On stellar level, the ascendant should not be connected to 6,8,12 houses in any way so should 2nd 7th 5th and 11th houses.
१)शनि : शनि के लिए दशरथ कृत शनि स्तोत्र में लिखा है जो व्यक्ति पीपल वृक्ष के नीचे बैठ कर शनि देवता के दस नामों को रोज पढ़ेगा उसे शनि की पीढा कभी नहीं होगी ....शनि वार के दिन सरसों के तेल को अपने ऊपर से उतार कर शनि मंदिर में रख के आ जाना चहिये ...चढाना नहीं है सिर्फ रख के आ जाना है ,शनि वार को काले वस्त्र आदि का दान करना चहिये ,शनि को मजबूत करने के लिए नीलम पहन लेना चहिये ,हनुमान चालीसा का नित्य दो पार पाठ करना भी अति लाभ प्रद होता है तथा हनुमान जी पूर्ण निष्काम भक्ति बहुत मार्ग खोल देती है ...ऐसा कहा गया है की शनि देवता हनुमान जी के भक्तों को कभी परेशान नहीं करते हैं .....
२)राहू : राहू के लिए सबसे अच्छा उपाय माँ दुर्गा की साधना है उस से उत्तम कुछ भी नहीं है ,गीता प्रेस गोरख पुर की दुर्गा सप्तशती को विधि विधान पूर्वक घर में लाकर उसका नित्य पाठ करना सभी कष्टों से मुक्ति का मार्ग प्रशस्त कर देता है ...चींटी की बाम्बी में शक्कर डालना भी रहू के उपाय है और मछलियों को आटे की गोलियाँ डालना भी .किसी अपाहिज कोढ़ी बदसूरत व्यक्ति को यथेष्ट जेब में से जो निकल आये वोह दे देना चहिये और उसके बारे में सोचना भी नहीं चहिये ....किसी भी दान को कर के उसके बारे में वैसे भी नहीं सोचना चहिये .....राहू का रत्ना गोमेद है ..सय्लोनी गोमेद सबसे अच्छा कहा जाता है ..उसे पहन लेना चहिये राहू को मजबूत करने के लिए ....
३)मंगल : मंगल के लिए हनुमान उपासना से बढ़ कर कुछ भी नहीं है ...मूंगा मंगल का रत्न है और उसे मजबूत करने के लिए मूंगा धारण करना चहिये ...हनुमान चालीसा में भी मूंगे का उल्लेख आता है ...मंगल वार के दिन उपवास करना भी एक उपाय है और शराब मांस से परहेज करना भी .....मंगल स्तोत्र का पाठ भी लाभ दायक होता है ....
४ )केतु : केतु को बहुत ही शुभ और मोक्ष करक छाया गृह माना गया है साथ ही बहुत ही अशुभ भी ...इसका रत्न लहसुनिया होता है जो कई प्रकार के होते हैं और बहुत सस्ते पत्थर होते है .केतु यदि पटरी में गडबड है तो ये ऐसी बीमारी देता है जिसे सामान्यतः जल्दी पकड़ा नहीं जा पता ;व्यक्ति पे झूठे आरोप लग जाते है ;वगेरह वगेरह ...केतु की शांति के लिए कहा जाता है की कुत्ते को रोटी खिलानी चहिये ....लेकिन मुझे इसका तर्क समझ में नहीं आया ...मेरे हिसाब से केतु और राहू की सामान्य रूप से माँ दुर्गा की आराधना ही सर्वश्रेष्ट उपाय है और केतु के शास्त्रोक्त दान आदि करना चहिये .
५ )चंद्रमा : इनके लिए चांदी धारण करनी चहिये और मोती या स्फटिक की माला पहन लेनी चहिये .ये क्योंकि बहुत शुभ और स्त्री गृह है अतः बहुत अनिष्ट आम रूप से नहीं करता .प्राणायाम ध्यान अनुलोम विलोम कपाल पाती इसके लिए सबसे अछे उपाय हैं
६ )शुक्र : शुक्र स्त्री गृह है ,मनुष्य की कामुकता से इसका सीधा सम्बन्ध भी है ,और हर प्रकार के सौंदर्य और ऐश्वर्य से ये सीधे सम्बन्ध रखता है .शुक्र के लिए ओपल ,हीरा , स्फटिक का प्रयोग करना चहिये और यदि ये बहुत ही खराब है तो पुरुषों को अश्विनी मुद्रा या क्रिया रोज करनी चहिये .
ओम रीम दूम दुर्गाय नमः इसकी १ माला रोज करनी चहिये शुक्र को अच्छा करने के लिए .
७ )सूर्य : सूर्य राजा है ,प्रबल है ,तेजस्वी है ,प्राण है ,गर्मी है ...ये कुंडली में अच्छा नहीं है तो मनुष्य बहुत भटकता है और मान सम्मान से दूर ही रहता है .इसका रत्न माणिक्य है .आदित्य ह्रदय स्तोत्र का नित्य पाठ पूर्ण श्रद्धा के साथ करना चहिये .साथ ही सूर्य को ताम्बे के पात्र में गुड और पुष्प समाहित करके अर्ध्य देना चहिये .
८ )बुध : बुध नपुंसक गृह है ...जिसके साथ या जिसके राशि में होता है विया ही हो जाता है .बुद्धि की तीक्ष्ता ,व्यापारिक बुद्धि ,लेखा जोखा ,मीडिया ,से इसका सीधा सम्बन्ध होता है .इसका रत्ना पन्ना है .ये चर्म रोग भी देने में बहुत सक्षम होता है .विष्णु सहस्त्रनाम का रोज पाठ नियम से करना चहिये अवश्य ही लाभ होता है .
९ ) गुरु : गुरु को सही करने के लिए गाय को पीली दाल १ किलो हर गुरूवार को खिलानी चहिये , व्रत करना चहिये , पीले वस्त्र दान में देना चहिये , हल्दी की गठान कांख में बांधनी चहिये , वृद्ध और सदाचारी ब्राह्मण को सपरिवार भोजन करवाना चहिये .
किसी के भी द्वारा बताये गए उपाय का अंधानुकरण मत कीजिये ...ये सामान्य उपाय हैं और कुंडली किसी सक्षम ज्योतिषी को दिखा कर ही इनको करिये.
ग्रंथों में सभी ग्रहों के वेदिक जाप हवन का विधान है जो की सवा लाख की संख्या तक जाते हैं और इनमें समय काफी लगता है ....ऐसे में ये काफी खर्चीले होते हैं और हर आदमी के बस में नहीं होते ...५०-६० हज़ार खर्चा करना काफी दुष्कर कार्य होता है ...इसलिए पाठक गण इन उपायों को करके लाभान्वित हो सकते हैं ...